I have always found it easy to apologize when I made a mistake. But I have learned something. It takes more effort to REALIZE I have erred.
This happened this week. I had an idea and I plunged in. I didn't talk to others about it who had a role, and they were unhappy. I don't know, since the communications were email, whether they were some version of angry or hurt, but I know I rocked the boat. After a few days I cooled off and realized that my idea may be valid, my process was poor.
I have some of the 21 steps of personal peacemaking in my head and I will check Lynn Fitz-Hugh's list to find some clearness and reality. I plan to resolve this mess peacefully.
I think that nasty sin of Pride presided. Humility is the cure and I will actively practice it.
Peace peace peace
Yes, peace begins at home. With more time at home, due to the holidays, I will actively practice peace. Hope you do the same!
1 year ago